Friend

Your friend is your needs answered.
(S)He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And (s)he is your board and your fireside.
For you to come to her/him with your hunger, and you seek her/him for peace.

When your friend speaks her/his mind you fear not the 'nay' in your own mind, nor do you withhold the 'ay'.
And when (s)he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to her/his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in her/him may be clearer in her/his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.

And let your best be for your friend.
If (s)he must know the ebb of your tide, let her/him know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek her/him with hours to kill?
Seek her/him always with hours to live.
For it is her/his to fill your need, but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.

--Kahlil Gibran